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Choosing the Right Condom
by Christy Brownlee, 05.21.03
Imagine this: You're in the middle of a hot and heavy make out session with your girlfriend or boyfriend. All of a sudden, you realize that this is it — you're about to have sex. You both lean over and reach for a condom at the same time, but wait... here's where the dream sequence gets fuzzy. Exactly what kind of condom is it?
If you've ever checked out the "family planning" section at your local drugstore, you know there are lots of different condom types to choose from. Although most condoms can help protect you from sexually transmitted infections and reduce the risk of pregnancy, not all are made the same. Should you go for lubed or dry? Does spermicide really help or hurt? And what's up with "ribbed for pleasure" and all those colors and flavors? Don't let these choices throw you for a latex loop. Here's the lowdown on some different condom varieties.
Latex and the Others
Most condoms are made of latex, a stretchy substance tapped from rubber trees. Latex condoms offer the best protection against pregnancy and infections, but unfortunately, some people have latex allergies. If you're one of them, you've got an option — polyurethane condoms, or female condoms that are made of a type of plastic.
Lubed v. Dry
Some condoms come with a thin layer of lubrication already on them. Other condoms without the lube are considered "dry." Lubricated condoms are the best for vaginal and anal intercourse — they feel better and are less likely to break from friction. But since lube doesn't have the most appetizing taste (unless it's flavored), dry condoms are often preferred for oral sex.
Should You Use Nonoxynol-9?
If you choose to go with lubricated condoms, check the package to see if your condoms contain nonoxynol-9. This spermicide can reduce the risk of pregnancy. Researchers used to think that it also lowered the chance of contracting a sexually transmitted infection. However, we now know that nonoxynol-9, if used many times a day, can actually irritate the vulva, vagina, penis, and especially the rectum. This irritation can actually increase the chance of getting an infection.
Of course, a condom with nonoxynol-9 is far better than no condom at all. For increased comfort, you can also use extra water-based lube, like K-Y® jelly or Astroglide®. Oil-based lubricants, like Vaseline® or other petroleum jellies or mineral or vegetable oils, will damage latex condoms.
Safe Stylin'
If you're down with the latest fashions, plain-Jane condoms might not be your thing. Lucky for you, condoms come in many different colors, flavors, and textures. Be it red, green, or camouflage, colors add a new look to spice things up. Flavored condoms — like chocolate, strawberry, honeydew, or banana — may be preferred for oral sex. Ribbed, studded, or other textured condoms are marketed for a different feel for both partners during intercourse, but a lot of people don't feel a difference.
If you decide to get exotic with your condom choices, make sure whatever you pick is FDA-approved to prevent pregnancy and infections. Some condoms are just novelty items and aren't designed for serious protection.
The best way to make a choice is to try several varieties and see what works for you. Happy testing! |
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